Own Your Own Future

School has always been hard for me and it’s getting worse. Everyone else seems to be doing okay, what is wrong with me?

Different people learn at different paces, just find a pace that’s comfortable for you. Ask a trusted teacher or counselor for extra help or find a friend from class to help you out with some tutoring. Don’t give up.

I don’t trust anyone and I feel frustrated all the time. Am I going to feel this way forever?

No. You may be frustrated now, but building real trust takes time. Keep believing in yourself and focus your energy on the things you like to do. Eventually you’ll find people that you can trust and who will help you reach your goals.

I’m always surrounded by people doing drugs, and they say it’s not that bad. Is it really going to affect me and my future?

Drugs can take away your focus, slow you down, and distract you from doing what you need to do to be successful. Surround yourself with positive people who share similar goals and interests.

I don’t know what job I want when I’m older. Do I still need to stay in school?

Staying in school is important no matter what job you choose. Think about things that you enjoy doing and find out if you can turn them into a career. Browse this site for some suggestions.

I feel like my parents don’t support me—everything they say is negative. What should I do?

Talk to your parents and ask them for their support. If they still don’t support you, find a teacher or adult at school who does and will listen.

How do I deal with people talking about me behind my back?

Ignore it. Focus on yourself and everything you’ve accomplished. People are always going to talk, so keep your head up.

My teachers don’t like or understand me, what do I do?

Find at least one adult at your school that you can trust and talk to, even if they aren’t your teacher. Remember, they’re there to help you.

My friends don’t always do the right things, how do I start to break away?

Let your friends know that you care about them, but tell them you have a hard time dealing with some of their actions. Find new interests and friends who support you.

How do I stay motivated when I feel so far behind?

Accept that school might take some time, but that you can do it. Set short-term goals for yourself and celebrate your successes once you accomplish them.